Edges: “You are Your Best Thing”

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We learn to respect our innate parameters.

  • Or we take on a challenge that feels insurmountable and yet our soul says — ‘please! go! and fly!’ The fire has been lit.

What is happening is we’ve gone over a personal edge. That invisible boundary that sometimes protects us, but oftentimes prevents us from stepping into our wholeness, our bigness, our full colored selves.

“Edges are names for the experience of confinement, for the limitations in awareness, for the boundaries of your own identity…. Thus, going over an edge is always an immense experience; you feel that your identity is changing, confused, lost or challenged.” (Arnold Mindell, Ph.D., Working on Yourself Alone: Inner Dreambody Work, page 67)

Those former traumas that may have left indelible voices can no longer refresh our old bruises and therefore can no longer hold us captive in our memory and soul’s earthquakes.

Instead we step over fragments of this timeline and try something different. It is astounding. It makes me smile and write these words as the sun floods this room and the sound of the clock’s tick-tock brings me back to my chair; her oak was once a tree and those very branches bow and I can hear the wind and leaves sing with Toni Morrison’s voice, “You are your best thing.”

Dreamer. Poet. HSP. Empath. Licensed MH Therapist. 3 books published. 3X Top Writer. Love espressos & my chunky cat. www.carolynriker.com

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